Ukufwailisha kwa myaka iingi kwafwilisha ici, ukulanga ukuti nangu icishinka cacindama, ukufwaya ukupumula kuti kwalenga ubumi ukuba ubwa nsansa. Muli Look Again: The Power of Noticing What Was Always There, Tali Sharot alundulula amano yakuti kuli ifisuma ifimonwa ilyo twafuma mu micitile yesu iya cifyalilwa no busuma. Sharot alanda pa kufwailisha ukufuma kuli ba Laurie Santos, abasambilila sana pa malwele ya mu mutwe na pa bwikalo bwa nsansa, abo batila ukufunga amenso no kwelenganya ubumi ukwabula abo watemwa mupepi na iwe kuti kwapeela ukukumfwa kwa nsansa no kutasha.